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7 Decisions You MUST Make to Break Free From Poverty

I grew up hearing my dad often make statements like, ‘rich people are proud’; ‘the rich don’t sleep peacefully’, ’I am better than the rich because I sleep peacefully’. He will often make comments starting with ‘We the poor…’ These declarations turned out to become self fulfilling prophesy. Being a natural observer, one lesson became …

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Denmark Venture Cup University Startup World Cup 2021 – Call for Applications/Nominations

2021 Venture Cup Denmark University Startup World Cup for University Startups worldwide Application Deadline: 13th June 2021 About the Award: The best impact based university startups from around the world come together to network, learn, grow and pitch for a chance of becoming the world’s best university startup! Type: Contest Eligibility: You’re a part of …

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7 Important Lessons from 12 Rules of Life by Jordan Peterson

7 Important Lessons from 12 Rules of Life by Jordan Peterson

I remember receiving two different phone calls from two of my university friends in one week – few years after graduation. One called to announce that he had just bought a car – a Toyota Camry. The other called to let me know about the new house he was about completing and how $100 is …

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Fate Foundation/Mitsubishi Aspiring Entrepreneurs Programme 2021 for Nigerian Agribusiness Entrepreneurs

FATE Foundation is excited to announce that application for The 2021 Aspiring Entrepreneurs Programme (Agribusiness Edition) is now open. Application Deadline: 4th April 2021 About the Award: This programme is an 8-week virtual programme targeted at entrepreneurs in the Agribusiness sector and who have their business operations based in Ogun state. Type: Entrepreneurship Eligibility: Age: 18 – 35 …

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An ambitious young man went to the monastery to learn from a wise man about the secrets of life. After listening for hours, the young man said, “wow, I have learnt a lot from you today”. Then the wise man replied, “You have learnt nothing. What you just got from me is information, now go and start learning.” Experience is the best teacher. So in this video, I’ll share with you 7 important skills you can only learn from real experience. And the sooner you learn these skills the easier your life will become. Before we get to it be sure to subscribe to After School Africa for more insightful videos like this. 1. Living through Crises The best of man’s creativity is born out of periods of crisis. Some of the most successful businesses and products were created after a pandemic, war or economic recession. While the mass of people were living in despair, the great inventors, innovators and creators were reimaging the world. Crisis compels you to learn the most valuable life skills; how to survive. It’s little wonder that the most successful people have experienced the most crises in their life time. People, who had to deal with crisis at early age, tend to develop stronger mental capacity to handle the issues of life and even to succeed. It takes a level of mental toughness to make the right decisions through crisis. Some people choose to start a business after years of being unemployed or underemployed, while some resort to self-pity or even crime. Developing the ability to deal with crisis is so important that some wealthy parents have to create artificial crisis for their children, to get them to learn valuable life lessons. They know these lessons cannot be taught from lectures at the dining table. It is through crisis, that we discover who we really are and what stuff we are made off. Do not run away from challenges. They are there to make you stronger. 2. How to listen to your Intuition We all have intuition; that feeling or gentle persuasion that something is off, or awesome, or needs your attention. But most people don’t consciously listen to their intuition. In fact, most people train themselves to shut up this gut feeling. But this still voice often comes with important knowledge that can serve as a compass, leading us through life. It is scientifically proven, that every person on the planet has intuition, whether we acknowledge it or not. And that the more you can learn about it, the more you can use it to shape your live for the better. Jim Ovia, in his book Africa Rise and Shine, mentioned how his intuition led him to develop interest in computer, even when very few people knew about its applications. This played a major role when he founded Zenith Bank. Steve Jobs also attributes his decisions to the paths he had taken through life as emerging from intuition. No one or book can teach you how to follow your intuition. It’s a skill you have to learn through deliberate practice. Sometimes, your intuition may go against all conventional wisdom. It takes a level of self awareness to identify that voice and follow its leading. The sharper your intuition, the better off you’ll be. 3. How to Say No In my primary school days, there was this song we sang during assemble. The wording was some like this; “wherever you go, wherever you be, do not say yes when you mean to say no”. It was a sweet song. But many of us didn’t take the advice of that song to adulthood. Kids are a lot better at saying No than adults. But as kids grow up, they are taught that saying no is impolite or unacceptable. Saying No when you mean No, and Yes, when you mean Yes is something a lot of grownups struggle with. We often do this when we don’t want to offend the other parties. And this stems from the fear of rejection. We don’t want to disappoint someone, make them angry, hurt their feelings or appear rude. As we mature, we realize that sometimes people make unrealistic demands from us, without understanding our situation. Society makes a lot of demand from us, so much that you have to learn to say no to a lot of things to retain your sanity. Being able to say no when you mean it brings a level of freedom and assurance that you are in control of your life. Saying no may not necessarily be a skill but it’s a habit you have to cultivate if you want to life a meaningful life. It will make you more self confident. 4. How to be Motivated Elon Musk needed to buy a rocket from the Russians to fly his project to space. But the Russians treated his team disrespectfully, because they didn’t look like a typical rocket-buying client. On their return flight, upset by this experience, Musk researched about making rockets, turned to one of his colleagues and said, “we are going to build this thing”. That was how SpaceX, his rocket company was born. Rejection turned to motivation. Motivational speakers make a career out of motivating people. But the truth is that, motivation is not what you learn from reading books or listening to motivational speakers. The best you can get from external motivation is to remind you ‘why’ you started, or ‘why’ you have to. The real motivation is the ‘why’. It could be seeing your parents go through humiliations because they were not educated or financially capable. It could be getting jilted by your crush because you didn’t meet their qualification for a partner. It could be being abused as a child. Deeply rooted motivation comes from real life experience. And that is the motivation that gets things done. 5. How to handle Failure You can read all the steps and how-tos about recovering from failure, and learning valuable life lessons from it. But if it were that easy, there wouldn’t be so many cynics in the world. Many people have been defeated by the failures of their past. You need to fail and work through the recovery from failure, to understand what it’s like to overcome failure. No book can prepare you to handle failure as much as your past experience of actually handling failures. People can offer words of encouragement but ultimately, overcoming failure is a capacity you develop from your own experience. 6. How to look out for your self Classroom may be competitive. Students compete for grades, compete for their teacher’s favor and compete in sports. But nothing will teach you the magnitude of competition as when you enter life after school. With technology getting more and more advanced, the world is getting smaller and smaller. This means that the domain for competition is getting wider and wider. While in school, you only had to worry about your fellow classmates. When in the real world, you have to not only compete with everyone else in the country you live in, but with the rest of the world. If you think good grades were good motivation for competition, wait until you see how money motivates people. You will learn that people can cheat, lie and even kill for money. Then you will understand the value in learning to look out for yourself. 7. Taking daily actions Success is not achieved by momentary pep talks or one-time rush of emotion. It is achieved from focused consistent daily habits. And this comes with a lot of boring process. You can learn a lot from reading and listening from the experiences and knowledge of other people. It can open you up to a world of opportunities and possibilities. And this is a great way to learn. But remember that a spectator outside the pitch sees things differently from the play on the pitch. It takes getting on the pitch to really understand how the game is played. Life is tough but it’ll become easier when you learn how to live through crisis, listen to your intuition, say no when you mean it, motivate yourself, handle failure, look out for yourself and take daily actions. If you found this video helpful, we’ll appreciate if you’ll like and share it with someone. If you are yet to subscribe to After School Africa, now is a good time to hit the subscribe button. Until next time, YOUR SUCCESS MATTERS.

7 Important Skills You Only Learn From Real Life Experience

An ambitious young man went to the monastery to learn from a wise man about the secrets of life. After listening for hours, the young man said, “wow, I have learnt a lot from you today”. Then the wise man replied, “You have learnt nothing. What you just got from me is information, now go …

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7 Key Reasons Why Financial Education Is Your Best Investment

7 Key Reasons Why Financial Education Is Your Best Investment

You’ve probably heard stories of some celebrities or lottery winners who went bankrupt. Mike Tyson the boxer, 50 Cent the rapper, Majek Fashek the musician, Emmanuel Eboue the footballer to name a few. The story of Emmanuel Eboue, former professional footballer, and Arsenal midfielder is particularly heartbreaking. He went from earning millions of Euros per …

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Africa Young Innovators for Health Award 2021 for African Entrepreneurs

Could you be the winner of the Africa Young Innovators for Health Award? Application Deadline: 31st March 2021 About the Award: The Africa Young Innovators for Health Award is launching its first competition designed to highlight and support the work of pioneering young entrepreneurs developing health innovations. We want to encourage business entrepreneurship and help …

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7 Signs You’ve Got What It Takes to Be Successful Today

7 Signs You’ve Got What It Takes to Be Successful Today

You may not be proud of your financial achievement today. But understand this; many people who are successful today were in your position a few years ago. You do not become a successful person when you have made a lot of money. You become a person of success before you start making good money. For …

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7 Signs you are a Hustler Not an Entrepreneur

7 Signs you are a Hustler Not an Entrepreneur

Two years after starting his delivery company, Frederick Smith’s business was millions of dollars in debt and at the brink of bankruptcy. Investors had rejected his pitch for funding. There was no money to fuel the plane for the next delivery; no money to pay employees. All the company had left was $5,000. Left with …

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7 Ways to Make Your First $1,000 with your Smartphone

7 Ways to Make Your First $1,000 with your Smartphone

When I started my business over a decade ago, earning the first $1,000 seemed like a big dream. If anything, I felt earning that amount of money would seal my fate in business. I could buy the tools I needed to work more efficiently. So I worked with great care and perseverance with my good …

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7 Survival Skills You Must Develop Before You Turn 25

Who says you are too young to make an impact in the world? Victor Hugo wrote his first tragedy at age 15. Alfred Tennyson wrote his first volume of poetry at age 18. Romulus founded Rome at age 20. Alexander the Great had conquered the known world by the time he was 23. Isaac Newton …

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